Oops.
I made a mommy error. L. has no problem calling me out on such lapses. She made me a bookmark--two-sided, as seen above. I thanked her and told her how pretty it was. She put it next to me while I was working in the kitchen, and I asked if she could please take it back upstairs and put it on my nightstand, because I was worried that it would get wet there. She said sure and went back upstairs.
When I made it up to bed in the wee hours of the morning, I found this in my bed. I wasn't totally sure what it meant, because I wasn't convinced that the "p" was a p. It's a little off. I asked her as soon as she got up in the morning why she left me a rejection slip. She said, "Because that's how I felt when you rejected my bookmark." 8-( I apologized profusely and explained that I loved it and wanted to keep it safe. I felt horrible!
I've reviewed the exchange in my head a hundred times over, and still think she was on the oversensitive side. I will be extra careful in the future, because even if she is oversensitive (and her age may be a factor; she just turned 12), I don't want her to ever feel that way! I'm happy that she handled it so quickly and maturely.
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